Communication- simple yet complex, easy to do, easy to blunder. We send from 100 to 300 messages a day. These include the messages we intend to send; the message we actually send; the message as the hearer interprets it; the response of the hearer based on what he or she heard; and our reaction to the exchange of words, meaning and interpretation.How many times have you been lost for words unable to convey your message?
How many times have you said and meant one thing only for it to be turned around and misconstrued?
How many times has someone looked at you only to ask what's wrong?
Have you ever left a discussion still clueless and in the dark as to what's really going on?
What about that blog, did you say all you wanted to say? In the way you wanted to say it? The first time?
As defined by the Business Dictionary, "Effective communication is a two way information sharing process which involves one party sending a message that is easily understood by the receiving party."
In today's world, there are a number of different ways we can communicate with others. However, with so many different ways it's very easy for our messages to get lost in translation. Effective communication to me means first understanding your listener's background. This will help determine everything from your vocabulary and the examples you use, to even your manner of dress.
When determining how you want your audience to see you, the difference between business or casual can often impact the way you're perceived as well as the strength and tone of your message.
Knowing what your listener needs and is looking for is also another crucial aspect of effective communication in that it will determine aspects regarding your use of body language, tone, and level of professionalism. While speech may be the dominant form of communication that we may think of, oftentimes, it's not so much what we say as it is how we say it? How many times have you heard that one? Body language is another area that is often overlooked. Are you able to project a strong, knowledgeable presence when the time comes? How about a laid back, more open one? What does an active, engaged listener look like?
Finally, as we move further into the 21st century, the biggest and most current barrier to effective communication is the divide between the digital natives and the digital immigrants. The ability for these two groups to meet on common ground and speak each other's language has never been so necessary and paramount to the continuing success of our society. Moving forward, as leaders, if we are going to reach and engage our students then we need to know how to speak their lingo. We must understood and utilize the tools with which they use to speak, self-identify, and communicate with. By doing so, we can also learn how these 21st century learners analyze and synthesize information in order to better prepare them for their futures.
Just the other day, a student came to me and said he wanted to be a YouTube star. I was like, "WTF! ROTFLMAO! That's stupid!" But, did you know, according to celebritynetworth.com, YouTuber Pewdiepie rakes in an estimated $7 million a year for his videos.
These are the digital natives...